This is a rambling that’s been on my mind the past few days, which I would like to share here.

What if we detached ourselves from our chores and obligations. What if we look at life as we look at a tv show? What if we wake up in the morning, or better yet, go to sleep wondering and looking forward to what will happen the next day.

Each day is an episode. Some episodes turn out to be rather boring and uninteresting, while some are worthwhile the time. Each day is a new episode.

What if just like a tv show, after so many crappy episodes we give up watching. We move on to the next tv show.

Each area of our live can be a tv show. Family, school, work, hobby, social events, each one is a separate tv show. Each one has it’s characters. The only common element is ourselves.

What happens when all these show suck? We stop watching and search for another one! If nothing satisfies you, you create a new set and join a new cast!

photo by me

It’s a new year all over gain. It’s the beginning of one more cycle of our continuity.

Resolutions aside, what’s the best way of starting it? Dates and events will be repeated, seasons will replay and we’re still the same. It’s up to ourselves to provoke change where it want it. Little adjustments to our attitude might go a long way.

The new year can be exciting if you look at it as new opportunities that will rise where you can to shine through. Or it can be a dreadful feeling of deja vu where you expect nothing new to come of it and feel trapped in a loop.

Like someone once told me, we need only to resign ourselves of the past. You only can’t change what has already passed. Everything else deserves a fighting change. Don’t limit yourself. Don’t resign yourself to an endless loop.

All your power lies in your attitude. The way you face the world around you is more powerful than might you think. It affects everything. You change the way you see yourself, the way you deal with others change, the way others respond to you changes, opportunities change.

At first it might hard to shift to a more positive approach. Just remember, whatever your insecurities are, others have them too. Everybody is flawed. It all comes down to how we deal with it and if we let it overpower us. Everyone has value, so let others see you.

Don’t be afraid and embrace who you are. Polish your positive side and don’t obsess over the negative. Focus on what you want and how you’ll get it instead on what you can’t have!

Have a great year!